Audrey – How has your relationship with your spouse or partner changed?

It’s a lot of work, and we already had a relationship where we were a team.  I’ve got three kids; we have to work this through.  And, I would say that’s been reinforced.  It’s a huge task, and to some extent, if there was a system of allocation of—“You do this and I do that, you pick up one child, I’ll pick up that one”—when that came, it became a little more intense.  I don’t think it’s made my relationship better; I don’t think it’s made my relationship worse.  I think it’s become more of a team effort, if that means anything.