James – How has your relationship with your spouse or partner changed?

The fear of losing her was put to rest pretty early on, you know, which was a huge a relief for me.  Even though I kind of gave her the out, you know I said, “You didn’t sign on for this.”—I said, “You know, if you think it’s better for you and for our daughter, I understand.”  You know, and she about kicked me from here to next week when I even brought that up.  You know, she says, “I signed on for better or worse”—She said, “We’re going to do this together.”  From then on, it was like, “All right, you asked for it, you got it.”  But we’ve had just a wonderful relationship.