Jenn – What’s gotten easier over time?

What's made it easier for me is seeing him, you know, he's happy, he's got a great job, he's married, he's got kids. He told me about two, maybe two-and-a-half years ago, that if he can change the night of his accident, he doesn't know if he would. And, for me that was just like, wow, because I thought well why should I just sit here and hope every day or wish every day that I could change that night when he really is okay. And, why should my mom worry and—my mom told me one time that every day since my brother's accident, she feels like she's going to throw up, like she feels nauseated, and has every day since the day of his accident. I mean, that was 10 years ago, that's a long time to feel like that. And so, I told her what he had said to me when he told me that he didn't know if would change the night of his accident, and I think that that has just been life-changing for all of us, because he's okay. We need to know he's okay, and we need to be okay.